Whether you're flying solo, coupled up, or floating somewhere in between, Valentine's Day is one of those things you just can't dodge. Maybe it's because February lacks excitement, and we're desperate for a pick-me-up in these dark, chilly days. Perhaps it's our human instinct to swoon over all things cute, and Valentine's stuff falls right into that adorable category. Or it could be the relentless push of late-stage capitalism, encouraging more holidays and, consequently, more shopping.
Even though I've been hitched for ages, I've had my fair share of solo February 14ths, contemplating my relationship status. That's why, whether I'm in a duo or flying solo, I like to turn this pseudo-holiday into a self-love fest. I suggest you do the same. Personally, my night involves lighting a fancy candle, donning a comfy outfit, sipping a nonalcoholic drink, and indulging in a lavish self-cooked meal while treating myself to online goodies.
If this sounds like your perfect night, read on for some top-notch gifts you can treat yourself to this Valentine's Day.
1. A Stash of Guilt-Free Chocolate
While I'm all for a heart-shaped box of chocolates, the sugary aftermath of a rom-com binge isn't always great. When I crave chocolate but want to feel virtuous, I turn to brands like Hu and Spring & Mulberry. Hu's cashew butter and vanilla bean dark chocolate bar is a personal favorite—barely sweet, with a nutty satisfaction. Spring & Mulberry's date-sweetened bars, especially the mixed berry flavor, beat the uninspiring grocery store options.
And hey, Alice's deep sleep chocolate with functional mushrooms? It not only tastes good but also lulls me into the best adult sleep of my life. A win-win.
2. Restocking the N/A Bar Cart
With a plethora of nonalcoholic drinks flooding the market, my role as BA's commerce editor involves constant taste-testing. Yet, these three N/A beverages are my must-haves:
St. Agrestis crafts mocktails so convincing I've questioned my husband's drink mix-up.
French Bloom, a champagne-flavored delight, perfect for special occasions or a fried chicken dinner.
Ghia, the gateway to the N/A lifestyle, with canned beverages that threaten to take over my fridge. Bittersweet lovers, rejoice.
3. A Scented Escape with Candles
The ultimate self-care treat is a getaway, but if jet-setting isn't in the cards, Vacation brand's scented candles bring the luxury resort vibes to your home. The "Vacation" candle, with notes of coconut, pineapple, pool water, and swimsuit lycra, transports me to a carefree haven. Get it as a perfume if you want that blissful feeling on the go. Prefer an indoor retreat? Their Lobby-scented candle, with fresh flowers and glossy magazine notes, creates a serene escape.
This Valentine's Day, give yourself the love and indulgence you deserve. After all, why wait for someone else to do it when you can treat yourself like royalty?